David Deida – Live and Uncensored Monthly Membership – Updated June with Call

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David Deida – Live and Uncensored Monthly Membership – Updated June with Call

Teachings from David Deida
Exclusively In the Recorded Talk Library:
Love as Art: Foundational Principles
This talk covers the foundational concepts that underlie the practice of sexual and relational yoga, including:
The nature of the spiritual Masculine and Feminine
The three stages of growth
Understanding the critical differences between spiritual practice, art, and healing so that you know what results to expect from each practice
From Jealousy to Ecstasy: Turning Pain into Growth
This talk explores how to transform negative emotions into practice that deepens love and integrity, including:
Why women are the most potent form of spiritual practice for men
The difference between the Masculine and Feminine attitudes toward relationship
What to do when your man’s attention goes to other women
Why a man’s practice is never enough for his woman, and why that’s a good thing
Three stages of Feminine sexual expression
Presence at Your Depth: Cultivating Consciousness
In this audio from a recent men’s retreat, David illuminates the foundations of Masculine practice.
Loving the world without being bound by it
If you put 50% of your attention on consciousness itself, all of your decisions will be different
How to cultivate intuition to guide your actions

Bringing deep consciousness into sex
How to accept your desires, experience them, and grow out of them
The fundamental unity of Masculine and Feminine
Cultivating a Wisdom Heart: Reverence for Love
Feminine bodies have the ability to respond exquisitely to subtle shifts in a partner. In this audio, David coaches couples on making use of feminine responsiveness to grow as a couple.
How to become a connoisseur of your heart’s response to each moment
How to stop arguing about details and take in her heart’s feedback on how conscious you are in each moment
Her gift is to show you what you can’t see
How a practicing couple pulls each other ever deeper into conscious love
How to surrender into his consciousness
Two ways to invite more presence from your man
Loving the Living Demoness: Working with Dark Energy
The dark side is where most of our energy resides. If we repress it, we cut off parts of ourselves that could be used to live and love more fully. In this talk, David explores how to love through the whole spectrum of our desires.
How to access the darker side of our nature with love
Using the energy of anger to love more deeply and fully
The conscious expression of Masculine and Feminine anger
How to love your partner’s anger
Using your anger to power your deepest gift
Consciously exploring dark sexual fantasies to enliven your sexual intimacy
How to approach dark sexual fantasies with a less adventurous partner
Overcoming Obstacles to Practice
This talk is a compilation of David’s responses to common obstacles that practitioners encounter when bringing this work into their everyday lives, including:
Practicing through physical and emotional discomfort
How to change a habit
Loving your partner’s limitations
When to leave a relationship and how to choose a new one
Integrating practice into a family with children
Gateways to the Third Stage of Practice
David delves into the differences in how the Masculine and the Feminine approach the Third Stage, how to recognize when you’re nearing it, and how to go deeper rather than running away.
How to get through the deep depression that the Masculine encounters when it realizes that it will never find satisfaction through money, success, or any other form
How the Feminine realization that ‘I will never be loved enough’ is the doorway into her greatest gift to the world
The Masculine and Feminine gifts to one another
How ejaculation contributes to depression
How he can use her body’s intelligence as an oracle to discover his purpose
Polarity in Public: Meeting and Dating in the Third Stage
This series of talks explores how to find and attract partners who are ready to meet you at the level of depth and openness you are ready for.
How to handle polarity in public and avoid being creepy
How to choose and attract a partner who is ready for deep intimacy and conscious sex
When to start having sex in a new relationship
How to take responsibility for your energy in any situation
The difference between Feminine and Masculine sexual energy in public
Why we seek our traumas in relationship, and how to turn our patterns into growth
Practicing at the Limits of Pleasure and Pain
What do moments of intense sexual ecstasy have in common with moments of deep frustration and despair? They are the most profound opportunities for practice. In this talk, David speaks on how to use the most obstinate difficulties in our relationships to open to love, and how to stay open to conscious love during the pleasure of masturbation and sex.
How to transform the worst moments into opportunities for practice
Loving through your patterns

Why practice starts at your limits
Why your darkest sexual fantasy is the key to your spiritual practice
How to open beyond sexual habits into sexual art
Introduction to masturbatory practices for men and women
Having compassion for each other’s development
How to transform masturbation from a draining distraction to a portal to spiritual depth and intimacy with the universe
Playing with Unequal Sexual Desire
In many couples, one partner desires sex more often than the other. In this talk, David explores this dynamic in a couple and helps them achieve greater sexual depth and polarity.
How to kindle sexual desire
How to circulate your sexual energy so that you don’t become needy or demanding when your partner doesn’t want to have sex
Bring her beyond pleasure through third stage cunnilingus
The Power of Your Dark Side in the Bedroom
Our darker sexual desires hold energies that, when channeled lovingly, can bring more vitality into our sex and our lives. David talks about ways to explore this dark territory in your sexual relationship.
Why dark sexual fantasies are enlivening
How to approach dark sexual fantasies with a partner
How to find the parts of him that you can surrender to completely – and distinguish them from the parts that you shouldn’t
The difference between liking “girly” things and being in your true feminine
How to tell whether bringing in additional sexual partners will enhance love, connection, and polarity, or diminish them
Sex as the Play of Consciousness and Love
Each of us has two qualities within us: the boundless emptiness of consciousness and the effulgent pleasure of love. If each partner embodies one of these poles, we can reach deep states of ecstatic sexual communion. In this talk, David helps you bring these qualities through your body so that you can offer them to your partner and die into boundless love during sex
An exercise to feel both the sacred masculine and the sacred feminine in your own body
Conducting the force of consciousness through your body sexually
How to bring full consciousness from solo practice into sex with a partner
What to do to help your partner deepen his consciousness in the unchanging depth of presence, or liberate her energy and flow with divine force in every cell
When to continue pushing your edge in practice and when to relax
The Dance of Masculine-Feminine Polarity
This talk deepens the teachings on the play of Feminine and Masculine begun in the previous talk. David guides specific exercises you can do with a partner to move into polarity—one of you embodying the flow of love and the other the depth of being—including practices that you can use instantaneously in everyday life or in sexual intimacy when the moment calls for it.
The place for practice is in this and every moment

Instantly move past the patterns of your past and into the immediacy of presence with your partner
Evoke your partner’s depth without using words
How to use breath and body movement to increase the flow of sexual energy between you and your partner
Finding a Partner Who Meets You at Your Depth
People often ask how to find a partner who can truly meet them. But a deeper question is what qualities to cultivate in order to be attractive to your ideal partner, and how to maintain the level of depth that you yearn for. David talks about the masculine and feminine sides of attracting and keeping a partner who is capable of the intimacy that you sense is possible.
Why do you want a relationship in the first place?
What is your ideal partner looking for in a relationship?
Choose how to be in each moment according to your purpose for being in the relationship
If you find the partner you’re looking for, their standards will be just as high as yours
How to balance your purpose with your relationship
The Essential Purpose of Sexual Yoga
These teachings explore what is essential in relationships, sexuality, and sexual practice. What are the essential qualities that feminine and masculine beings desire in one another? What do you essentially want in a partner? What are the vital ingredients of sexual ecstasy that do not require an erect penis, a vagina, or any specific body part? What does sexual yoga contribute to our lives? David addresses these and other questions in this month’s audio.
Why learn sexual yoga? (It’s not to be happy)
Which aspects of sexual practice take work, and which are effortless
Learn to let the ache you feel become what a third stage man has been looking for his entire life
Why you will never find a partner who completely satisfies you, and what to look for instead
How to lose your erection and maintain your consciousness
How to stay connected with a partner who is practicing ejaculatory control
Combining physical and spiritual ecstasy
Sexual Yoga Practices: Fantasy to Communion
COMING SOON
David seldom distributes full sexual yoga practices in recorded form. This month’s audio is a rare opportunity to experience solo and partner practices that develop your capacity to bring spiritual depth and surrender into your nervous system through the gateway of sex. These practices begin with your most potent sexual fantasy—however dark and nasty (or light and beautiful) it might be—and transform it into a vehicle to explore the deepest parts of yourself and your partner in exquisite, moment-to-moment communion.
How to serve open your partner and the world through your darkest fantasy
The essential masculine and feminine sexual gifts
How would you move in her so she surrendered open to the divine alive in her own heart?
How would you receive him so that he loved more than he ever has, so that he had no choice but to give you the part he’s always held back?
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